Sexual intercourse
Sexual intercourse is sex with penetration of the vagina or anus by a hard penis.
Penetration of the vagina
A man who is aroused can get an erection. The penis swells with blood. It gets bigger and harder and it rises up.
A woman who is aroused gets a wet vagina. This helps the penis to enter the vagina.
The woman can get pregnant only if:
- the man’s semen enters the woman’s vagina and uterus and if
- the woman is in her fertile days of the month.
If you do not have a desire to have children at the moment, use contraception.
Penetration of the anus
A man and a woman, or 2 men, can have sex with penetration of the anus.
A woman cannot get pregnant through penetration of the anus. However, make sure that semen does not enter the vagina.
Reasons for sexual intercourse
You can have sexual intercourse for different reasons, for example because you want to:
- have children (only through penetration of the vagina);
- experience sexual pleasure;
- express love and other emotions;
- experience intimacy;
- relax.
Sexual intercourse during the menstrual period
Some women want to have sexual intercourse during their menstrual period, others do not. A woman can have sexual intercourse during her menstrual period if she wants to. It will not lead to hygiene problems.
Variation
You do not need to have an orgasm each time you have sex. Many people do not always have an orgasm.
You can have sexual intercourse in various positions: lying, sitting, standing or crouching.
There are other ways of having sex, besides sexual intercourse.
Talk with your partner about your desires and feelings. Together you can decide what is good sex for both of you.
